Ten things I wanna say to a Black Woman

The Optimist Creed

I promise myself:

• To be so strong that nothing can disturb my peace of mind.
• To talk health, happiness, & prosperity to every person I meet.
• To make all my friends feel that there is something worthwhile in them.
• To look at the sunny side of everything & make my optimism come true.
• To think only of the best, to work only for the best, & to expect only the best.
• To be just as enthusiastic about the success of others as I am about my own.
• To forget the mistakes of the past and press on to the greater achievements of the future.
• To wear a cheerful expression at all times & give a smile to every living creature I meet.
• To give so much time to improving myself that I have no time to criticize others.
• To be too large for worry, too noble for anger, too strong for fear, & too happy to permit the presence of trouble.
• To think well of myself & to proclaim this fact to the world, not in loud word, but in great deeds.
• To live in the faith that the whole world is on my side, so long as I am true to the best that is in me.

Now go out and and spread some positivity

Briana's Work

This is an amazing artist whose work i have been following for a while.  i lovve her work honestly its uplifting in my time when I need to be alone to reflect and just bask in my beauty.  God is love and so is bri's work
Check out her blog below:
http://briannamccarthy.blogspot.com/2011/06/look-in-jump-out.html

In my time of distress

I was  looking back at some old pictures while cleaning today and some I laughed and the others made me cry.  Three weeks ago tomorrow I lost my friend Jonathan James in a vehicular accident.  I am thinking about how fragile life can be and the implications of some of our actions.  Am I sad? Definately- there is this little hole where he used to be and for some reason it feels broken yet not so broken.


How does life go on in the aftermath of death? I remember him in front of me, the words he spoke and the things we did.  The dreams we had and shared.  Has that been broken because he is no longer here? No not at all just as he was strong in this life i think he went the same way.  he has not truly left me but he is around in spirit...Its hard on some days to admit that he was and no longer is but as I russle with my thoughts i am reminded that being meek, humble and steadfast is just as important as all the other things that make up this life.  have an awesome week Blessed love.

Christian Larson

The average person is in the habit of saying, “The older I get;”’ and he thereby calls the attention of his mind to the idea that he is getting older. In brief, he compels his mind to believe that he is getting older and older, and thereby directs the mind to produce more and more age. The true expression in this connection is, “The longer I live.” This expression calls the mind’s attention to the length of life, which will, in turn, tend to increase the power of that process in you that can prolong life. When people reach the age of sixty or seventy, they usually speak of “the rest of my days,” thus implying the idea that there are only a few more days remaining. The mind is thereby directed to finish life in a short period of time, and accordingly, all the forces of the mind will proceed to work for the speedy termination of personal existence. The correct expression is “from now on,” as, that leads thought into the future indefinitely without impressing the mind with any end whatever.

3 types of friends

As I use these messages to show you or guide you in the right direction.  Please know that I to have my struggles as to who my real friends are, trust me it can be difficult at times but come what may trust your spirit as your guide.  God places people in our lives for a reason and we must use his wisdom to continuously guide us in the right direction...Hes always in control trust me Ive been there.

My eyes are adjusting

This vid speaks for itself.  Listen and take your personal notes as to what you should remove from in front your eyes in order to see better.